It’s really, really upsetting when someone offends you and saddens you and, when you try to bring the issue up – to get it solved – it is classifyed as being “a minor issue”.
“Oh, why did you have to bring that up? It’s not like it’s worth talking about!”
Because in the end, if a problem is affecting only one of the involved parties, it is mostly likely existant only in that party’s head.
And I’m not exactly the person who’s phyisically able to stay mad at others for long periods. This is kind of a free pass for others to treat me as they well please while thinking they don’t need to solve things up afterwards or answer for their behaviours. After all, it will fade away with time, right? All they have to do is silently, avoidingly wait for me to “get over it”! Woah, what an efficient procedure.
Exceot that in the end of the day, it solves nothing – it just opens a precendent so they’ll know the next time things will go exactly the same way and will end up exactly the same way – me adjusting, me keeping up, me bearing things, me trying to avoid further conflict by restraining my behaviour.
And then I only slept four hours because my head was so filled with conflict and today I have some kinda important things to get done and I can’t see me doing them properly. Bah.